Yes, I think a hot water bottle is a bit pathetic really. What kind of engineer are you? A propane blowtorch would be better, particularly if the thread is loctited. When I was doing some work on my mount in the summer I bought one of the cheap cookery ones from Amazon. It worked for me. If it doesn’t work to free your thread you can always make a creme brulee.
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